“I’ve already told you: the only way to a woman’s heart is along the path of torment. I know none other as sure.” Marquis de Sade
The Marquis de Sade is attributed with this quote sometime in the late 1700’s and in its essence, this quote is more true than most men will ever know. Even Manosphere members, who think they’ve swallowed the red pill fully, sometimes forget the importance of torment in their interactions with women. I’m talking about torment in every form, physical, mental and emotional. Women are creatures that crave torment and if the man they’re involved with doesn’t inflict torment on a regular basis and at they levels they want, that man will quickly find himself cheated on or dumped in short order.
Different women will crave different levels of torment, but they all do and it’s important to be able to gauge how far to take the torment you’re dishing out. Some women need more physical than mental for instance and some need more mental than physical; it’s the level of each that you need to figure and balance out for your interactions with her to be successful. Torment is extremely important especially if you see the girl as LTR material. Nothing else will bond her to you as well as torment.
Never admit however, that you’re tormenting her, just do it and don’t say a word. It’s also imperative to start the torment as soon as you meet her and she shows interest in you. What do I mean by torment I can hear you all asking? Just this, it’s actions that you take to make sure that her ego and body are in a constant state of questioning herself and the hamster is constantly trying to figure out how to get in your good graces.
Mental torment should start from your first interactions with her. When you first meet, find something that will bother her about her appearance or behavior that you know will hit home. But I’m not talking about a neg here. This is something that is intended to hurt; you deliver it in a completely deadpan manner and then continue the conversation as if what you noticed was completely obvious but no one else around her would dare say it to her. Never mention it again. She’ll be so stunned that it won’t come up in conversation again, but she’ll remember it and think about it for days. A little later in the conversation throw in a small compliment to balance out the bombing you just unleashed on her. As the relationship develops, continue these little attacks, remember, torment keeps her wanting to find ways to please you. And always come off as completely serious with your remarks as if what she does, looks like, the clothes she wears, how she acts and what she’s interested in aren’t quite up to your standards. If you make her cry, all the better, just don’t let her cry on your shoulder. Don’t forget to throw in the occasional compliment or nice gesture, torment all the time might chase her off. Well, maybe not, the results you get will determine the right balance. The hotter the girl, the better this works. I wouldn’t use this on sub-par girls though, suicides might result.
Physical torment should start the first time you bang her and should escalate from there. The first time you get her in the sack, spank that ass. There are very few girls who don’t enjoy this and there are very few guys who will spank her during the first fuck. During subsequent bangs, escalate, tie her up, choke her, pull out the old riding crop and use toys on her like nipple clamps. Continue to escalate as long as she’s enjoying it and see how far you can take it. You’d be surprised how far most women will go especially if you just do it and don’t discuss it with her. Don’t go so far as an assault charge of course, keep it cool and she’ll start asking you to do more and more. The physical torment doesn’t just apply to the bedroom however. Slap her ass in public. Pop her with a towel when she comes out of the shower. Pinch her on the leg when she walks past you in the living room. Don’t do these things all of the time but do it often enough that she is always wondering when the next one is coming. Do these things erratically and you’ll have a compliant gina-tingling woman who’s always ready for you. Or, you might end up with a complete submissive which is even better.
Emotional torment is the easiest to inflict but has the largest chance of backfiring. Use this sparingly, only when you think she’s getting too comfortable with the situation or she’s done something that’s displeased you. Disappear for a couple of days with no contact. Don’t be afraid to yell when she does something to anger you. Make sure she has no illusions that you’ll put up with any of her crap and punish her when she pushes that assumption. Don’t be afraid to call her a stupid cunt when she deserves it. I’m sure you can think of other things that would work.
Torment her…she’ll love you for it.