“We both wanted a big family (6 or 7!) but I’m getting a bit old – spent too much time on the feminist career-delay-family treadmill before I got in touch with what I really wanted and found it in a man who I can sense walks into a room even when I don’t see him, that’s how electrifying he is to me. When you find that, you don’t leave. You do everything to make yourself worthy of keeping around.” Cranberry
That statement was made by frequent commenter and fellow blogger Cranberry in reply to my article “Nice guys”. Her comment was the first of many that makes me think that there is a coming backlash towards feminism and the lies that women have been told for all these years. Let me ask, have you ever heard a woman make a statement like that? That article also got me a new reader and commenter who goes by the moniker Annie Oakley. Her comments were eye opening to say the least about how at least some women are coming to the realization that being a traditional wife makes them the most happy. Here’s her first comment:
“If it’s OK, I’m going to chime in on this blog as a middle-aged white married female if that’s ok with y’all. My husband is an alpha male and that suits me just fine. We’re in a traditional marriage. He makes the money and takes care of the outside and I take care of the inside.
I do see the Brian’s all over the place. It makes me sad. My 1st cousin is a Brian. Probably hasn’t been laid in years, has a job, his own home and does quite well financially not to mention he’s in excellent physical shape. His muscles look like piano cords. He’s a good looking blue-eyed red headed man. When I come and visit my uncle, he will come over to visit. He’s one of the kindest people you’d ever meet; he just needs some self confidence.
I remember a few years ago before I got married, I stayed with his father, my uncle for 3 weeks. (redacted) was over every single day. He was thrilled a woman was kind to him, even if it was his own 1st cousin. We hung out, had drinks at a local bar and had a lot of fun. But when I asked him about women and meeting someone, he shut down. He’s probably been SO rejected by these women whom I’ll call ghetto whores, he’s just given up.”
That does sound like the guy in that Craigslist ad. Annie isn’t shy either to call women today what they’ve essentially become. She continues:
“Here’s the thing gentleman. Even women my age and I’m in my 50′s were lied to. We were lied to and I didn’t even realize the magnitude of the lies until a few years ago. This is my 2nd marriage. My first alpha husband died in a car crash. I don’t believe in divorce. You make a vow and you stay with it.
Sorry to say, most women today in their 20′s and 30′s are loud-mouthed, trashy, tattooed whores. And that makes me very sad. I don’t have any daughters but if I did they would have been suited up with a chastity belt a long time ago. I’ve told my 2 unmarried cousins to consider a woman from Russia or Eastern Europe. Most young women are gone. Seriously gone.
We were told as teenagers, get a college education, get a job and then find a man. What a load of bullshit. Had I had it to do all over again, I would have married at 18 and pumped out a bunch of good kids. I married at 25, got a college education and the rest is history. But after 4 miscarriages I gave up on having kids.
I don’t cast my pearls upon swine. My husband has retired and we’re moving to a rural area next month. There are a lot of old fashioned gals there who are good women. I plan on mentoring these women to learn how to sew, cook, crochet, knit, can and other things that are viable skills, not mindless mall shopping and listening to ghetto music.”
Wow. Talk about going back to traditional ways of life. How many women do you know that even have these skills, much less want to mentor other woman to teach them these skills? None that I know. Plus, if she’s middle aged and her husband just retired, he must be quite a bit older than her. Proof that he is the Alpha she describes. It’s also proof that an Alpha’s age doesn’t matter. I asked her how she came to the conclusions that she wrote about and this was her reply:
“When I was single it was “in” to hate men. Men were the problem and we were the solution (women). It just didn’t feel natural to be a hater, especially to men.
I listened to Oprah (big F’ng mistake) and her lackeys. Oh you don’t need a man, why do you want a man, why do you wanna be married? Why can’t you be happy yada yada yada. I even had women friends give me a hard time for wanting to be married again.
I’d literally given up. I stopped talking to a few of my women friends who were men haters.”
That was probably her first step in figuring out what she wanted and how to get it.
“Then I read various blogs online who gave me the lowdown on YKW and how they were destroying our people. It finally made sense.”
Our humble blogs are doing good for everyone. The red pill isn’t just for men, it works on everyone.
I get a lot of flack for being a traditional woman. I’ll have women here ask me what do you do for a living? When I tell them I’m a housewife and I take good care of my husband, they look crestfallen. I think they think I’m weird.”
I don’t think she’s weird. It’s the women asking her the question that are weird.
“Now if I told them I was a civil rights lawyer, a race hustler, a fashion designer or some other politically correct job, I’d be in like flynn.
Finally I said, the number one denominator in all my past relationships is me! What is in me that is allowing men who won’t commit to me? What the hell is wrong with me?”
The hamster is in the crosshairs. It’s a rare woman that will ask herself that question.
“I finally said to myself, I want to be married and find the love of my life. If that means I will be single the rest of my life, I will NOT settle for anything less than a “real” man.
I met my husband 2 months later, and 5 months later we were married. We’ve been married over a year. The first year was rough, but we made it. I have no regrets.
He for the first time has a traditional woman and he’s happy with that.”
The Brian’s of the world need to make friends with women my age. We’re natural matchmakers. My husband and I are always talking to the younger crowd, men and women. I’ve point blank told women, stop looking like sluts and you’ll find a decent man. I tell the men, accept no less than a virtuous women who’s traditional and you’ll be fine.”
Now that last paragraph is interesting. I wonder why no one in the manosphere has thought of that. It makes sense; married women know who the slutty girls are and which ones are virtuous in their social circle. And they want to protect the good ones. I asked her in my next comment to her if she was happy and this was her response:
“I’m very happy! Don’t get me wrong, my husband and I argue. We both have very strong assertive personalities so sometimes it’s like 2 bulls in the arena, LOL. Just wave the red flag and it’s WWIII. But I love my husband, I would stay with him if the Titanic sunk. We would go down on the ship together.
Once again, young white men need to make friends with married women my age. All of us have nieces, daughters, friends, etc. If we know the score and the young men know the score, it’s a win win as they know we’ll set them up with a decent woman, not a mall wench.
I want to spare young women and men the pain I went through, the loneliness, etc. Even my current spouse was taken advantage of by women. He was used many times. He finally woke up and said he no longer wanted a woman who was fat, a woman who was in bad shape, financially and mentally and with no financial baggage. Then he found me.”
It appears her husband took the red pill before he met her. Good for him…and her.
“Water seeks its own level. If a young man has confidence, knows himself and has a strong awareness of self, he will not be swayed by a woman who will use him.
Women use men, they really do. I hope I didn’t in the past, but I don’t think so. It’s not in my nature to take advantage of men. I wasn’t raised that way.
I know men get lonely. I know that. I get that. But our young men cannot allow that loneliness which sets them up for a fall. A fall of being used, manipulated and taken advantage of.”
Unfortunately, we’ve got a long way to go until men don’t let women manipulate them for their own gain. But we’re making progress.
“To avoid that, men have to stay away from clubs and malls. Even a woman who’s a decent woman and slim can go from a 3 to 9. With the right makeup, hair color and clothing, a decent 3 can be a 9 hottie in a matter of hours.”
The operative word is slim. She gets what men want and it’s not a fattie.
Am I bashing women? Nope. But since I don’t know how a man feels, I only know how a woman feels. The #1 proponent of Liar in Chief is white women. It’s really quite sickening. When I see a white woman with an Obama sticker I wanna bitch slap her.
I have 9 nephews. 1 niece. My nephews are wonderful young men. I would tell them the same thing that I put on this blog.”
Annie, great points. It just goes to show that there is a coming backlash against feminism and its toxic teachings. These women are part of a vanguard in my opinion. The more we can get our word out, the more women find that the traditional way of interaction between the sexes always leads to greater happiness not just for women, but also for the men they love.
We are winning.